“Hey, Are You Smiling?” Recognizing A Smile As An Essential Tool For Positive Communication

Recognizing a smile as an essential tool for positive communication

Soumen Mukherjee

Department of English School of Social Sciences & Languages Vellore Institute of Technology, Vellore Tamil Nadu, India 632014

Keywords: Communication Style, Normal Environments, Non-verbal Communication, Confirmatory Emotions, Optimistic Ambience


Abstract

A smile is unquestionably a vital component of a confirmatory emotion, which has a comprehensive impact on our overall well-being. It creates reliance, diminishes misapprehension, and disperses ambivalence. Although research on the overall effects of smiles on the psyche of human beings has been conducted at large, less enquiry has been made into the subservient visage of smiling. The current research endeavours to showcase the importance of a smile as an indispensable element for positive communication. The primary data is based upon the researchers' observations of the impact of a smile on people’s communication style, typically within normal environments, to ascertain dependable behaviour. A thematic analysis has been used to detect, explore and find the outcome through secondary materials like research papers, articles, newspapers and interviews to understand the influence of this particular non-verbal communication. The research proves that positive communication relies on confirmatory emotions, which require us to be self-assured in our day-to-day verbal interactions. If we smile recurrently, we create an optimistic ambience, which promotes open communication and an unmediated tenderness between people. A smile acts as a contrivance to convey liking and approachability, which creates a sense of fellow-feeling.


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